Office Bazaar talk

My colleague organised a team coming to giv talk about numerology and life path numbers

Then some credit card promotion frm standard chartered 

Interesting to find out my life path number calculated out frm my birthday is 9

And jus nice my bf also same number as me 9

Then went AI to see my compatibility with him

Then a sale bazaar

Selling mainly mooncakes and cookies

Spend $100++ in that short 2hrs event

Woolalal

 

七夕快乐2026

The day before 19 Aug was 七夕 Chinese de valentine's

Which I dk

Cause I dk Chinese calendar

Then at night suddenly my colleague fwd in grp chat telling us Abt tdy is 七夕

The flower shop they frequent send them flower promotions

And her hubby bringing her eat nice food tonight

Then I went to text my bf Abt it

Then he say I always wanna spoil my own surprise lol

Tot he mention was treating me eat good food tml

Since I am meeting him after my training tml.

So he bring me back to northpoint seorae eat bbq

Then we went for movie after

The End of the Oak Street

Nice movie

Talking Abt a strange phenomenon transporting a while neighborhood back to historical period 20million back

And the family had to fight back to avoid being eaten by dinosaurs

Have a good ending

Unexpectedly new genre and heartwarming movie

With a lil thrill moments added in.

Then after the movie, we went genki for supper as it was still early 9pm and I had to go home at 11pm

Then he said this time round genki is I treat. As his 七夕treat back

So funny sia

First time meet a guy like this

Treat liao

Still 不甘愿and wanna gf treat him back

Then I think ok la, seorae bill is $81

Let him eat back lo.

Then genki we eat ard $46

Then we went ntuc shopahop fr snacks

Then I get back at him

Say his turn to buy my snacks as my 七夕present cause jus  now is my turn now his turn

Then he caught off guard and say ok lo

Then bought $11worth of snacks 

Make me happy liao

Who ask he purposely

End up 10plus le

We walk to carpark and he prep to drive me home

I open my door and see a bouquet of flowers sitting at my seat

I was so surprised and scream out

Wa! Why I still have flowers?!

Lol

Didn't expect that sia

Happy bt the nex moment I think

Another preserved flowers bouquet

No space put at hm liao ley

He previously alr bought me 1 last yr our 1st yr anniversary 

Lol

Another thing to mention

We gt the same queue number as our bto application lol

So qiao!

Happy that my bf is improving

And know how to be romantic liao 

Though at times still Abit 欠打

Thanku b~

 

Mindset is really important

Reference to:

https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/health/girl-born-with-skin-missing-from-her-scalp-body-arms-and-legs

I  always feel inferior of myself, my skin due to eczema condition that suddenly affect my when I was in Primary 4 age 10

I always feel angry , unfairness

Why heavens let me have this condition

All other kids have healthy skin and can take on swimming lessons when I need to sit beside the pool and watch them with my bandaged feet

Kids can run carefreely in the sch hallways

In the PE sessions

While I sit there and watch wif me bandaged feet

After recovering for the peeling skin and infected one wound with unknown liquid oozing out every min every sec

I was left with scars marks all over my body and legs esp

Whenever I wear shorts and skirt ,ppl will point and whisper and hiss and call me nicknames

I always feel small and outcast and inferiority complex kicks in and eat into me over all these years

I start to think I am disgusting I am ugly 

And I don't deserve to be loved

Nobody will love me

Cause I dun even like myself to start with

However thanks to having alot nice people that I met in my life over all these yrs

Who kept on telling me

I am normal 

I am fine

I am no different frm the rest

My scars are nth that I shld be fearing of

They gave me the confidence back lil by lil

And I begun to dare to wear shorts revealing my scar

And feel nth /disgrace when other ppl look at me

And tdy I see this news above 

I don't intend to throw shades at the lil girl in the news

But I rly think if I think I am being treated unfair

And what Abt her?

Did we have a choice to be like this?

No

Nth is fair in this world

Nth is perfect

That's when we humans grow and learn and adapt

To be the best versions of ourselves 

I hope myself and all ard me will grow up and have the stronger mindset towards life towards everything

Be more braver to face this world and all the hardships

You are not alone

So pls be braver and stronger!

J.M3【慢半拍】Official MV

 This song lyrics resonating