Another epic moment

So last Sunday, meetup for lunch with JJ at vivo 

Then shopping ard and chatting

Managed to buy a diffuser and a Tee frm Uniqlo

Which happen JJ also buy the same design one.

And when he suggested to wear the same tee the nex time,

I replied no... That's weird.

Lol!

So still at the stage of gg on dates and getting to know each other preferences and dislikes

Going to mooncake fair

Going to the Donald duck exhibit on rooftop

Then after sending him off

Went to bedok to meet another friend JZ for hotpot dinner

He had cut his hair short to army boy style

TT

Prefer his previous long thick hair during our first date

And he wearing short this time round

So vry casual kind and he seems so tired

Told him we can don't meet de mah,

He can rest

Then he said no need

And endup he got bring up the mood and chat wif me while we ate dinner

Then after that same he drive me home

And on the way we passed by a pasar malam in bedok

And as we two were talking Abt which oasarmalam food that we like most

I suddenly tell him, my hse there gt oasar malam

Then he jus say he wan go wif me

I am like what? 

So endup we went ther and his fav tutu store is closed and only me eating my mua ji

Then asked him go get drink fr me

And he only came back with 1straw TT

So we ended up sharing the drink.

And totally frgt he having sorethroat.

And after we bid gd bye,

Tues I kena sorethroat le

So he was apologetic to me.

And wed lunchtime I was texting him that I had frgt to bring lozenges wif me to my office

He suddenly text me say he can drive to my office giv me

As he is otw to Outram, so is rly nearby to my office.

At first rly shock 

As never in my life did I think this will happen to me

So Abit touch by his offer.

So he rly drive over n pass me his lozenges 

And he gave me a whole new box lol!

So since Holi periods and upcoming exam season

Guess he will be rly busy wif all the tuitions

So till the next time I see him shld be end sep/Oct?

As so far our dates is like once in a mth kind

Lol!

We shall see

Oya frgt to share a damn embarrassing moments

When we go back to his car after the pasar malam and he gg to drive me home rite.

I notice the side mirror is close. 

So I wanted to help him turn open. Bt I tried twice bt it is like stuck, then I see on the other side he jus get on his car without opening his side mirror. So I thought ahar he totally frgt Abt it. Ltr when he start driving I am gonna tease him Abt forgetting his side mirror.

So I jus get on and waiting fr the right moment to laugh at him.

Endup once he start engine

Both side mirrors auto open by itself 

我傻眼

真是个土包子

Hiaxx

Luckily I nv say anything sia

And I even wonder did he see the moment when I tried twice to pull open his side mirror? 

Aiyoooo

So embarrassing 

Updates for the past wk

So I went to met with JJ on last Friday nite for dinner

At bouna vista

And it was till when I reach bouna vista and waiting fr him

Then he text me saying ltr don't be shock when I see his finger

As he had hurt himself on the day

I was like, then u shld tell me earlier then jus don't meetup le mah

His finger was like jus bandaged by his colleague using a first aid kit

Alamak

Then whole night we eating he at times will look at his finger seem to be thinking smth

Aiyo.

So we went to eat steak.

Cos there become a unspoken rule like

Ea of us take turns to pay fr ea dates

So last Fri was my turn

And he suggest to eat western

So we went to have steak

And the funny thing is I jus ordered wat I usually ate tenderloin premium cut which cost $40 as I no stress Abt the price thinking that tdy is my turn to pay mah

Then while the waiter was still ther waiting my receipt to be out. JJ suddenly said I can pay u back de

I rly raise my eyebrows and jus shake head and say no need.

Damn awkward la, the waiter still there u know

Aiyoo

Somemre the bill only $90?

Bt mayb to him normally we go on dates we only eat $40meal then he might feel bad la.

So after dinner, we went buy bbt and sat down in the atrium stairway to chat till 10pm? Then we make our way home.

I also tell him to rest well and if rly cmi, sun we can don't meet de, he can jus rest at hm

As we actually had plans to meet on Fri n sun

Bt endup when I text him on sat nite if he still wan meet.

Then he said he alr rest enuf on sat so sun can meet

Damn funny

Then we arrange to meet at vivo and endup I reach before him agn

Then ask him where is he

He still tease me and said I behind u then I turn ard and almost headbutt into the guys chest Tmd embarrassing 

Then endup he said I am 1station behind u

Jeezz, I rly beat him when he met up wif me ltr on,

So his mood seem better. And as usual I purposely don't hold hands wif him 

And this time round he vry proactive

He held to my hands when alot ppl and hold my waist when I getting into the line to go up or down escalator 

Which is good improvements

Then after lunch, we went shopping fr his jeans. He suddenly said he want to buy baggy jeans

Then jus walk ard the mall then have ice cream.

Cos I am meeting another guy at 7pm so I don't dare order a ice cream fr myself

And we endup sharing 1 ice cream which I only ate 2 bites and he finish the rest

Then I told him, u nex time need to prep yourself to eat alot when u with me

Ahahahah

Then I played with his hands while waiting fr the ice cream

Suan him why his hands so rough not like hand of a 31yrold 

Then he said he got workout.

Then we went habourfront station platforms wait for the next train seated down, he rly this time round sit hen near me. Rly our body n legs hen near, and we were holding hands so I jus lean on him lol!

Bt I gt tease him la, your other side no space meh. Then I shift away from him, bt he shift back near me lol!

Then when he alight at outram, actually I jus wave gdbye to him, he suddenly hold my hands lol! 

So we jus parted ways.

Then I msg the other guy that I can reach earlier.

So end up we went Starbucks and since our last meetup, which was 1mth ago?

So chatted Abit till 9pm? Then he said he will walked me home then rly walked along the mrt track and I accompany him have supper at a hawker opp my blk.

This feeling rly weird.

Since using this dating app to make friends

Rly have alot first time things off my bucketlist

Meeting stranger that I met online

Having dinner dates with guy

Holding hands with guys

Sing k wif guy

Guy walking me home

Guy driving me home

Guy hugging me

Guy confessing to me

Shopping with a guy

Supper with a guy

Rly damn refreshing all this first time experience

So was chatting with the JZ

Last wk I share him the photo I went hotpot for a farewell dinner wif My temp her

Then few days ltr he send me photo of him eating mala make me crave fr it

So I last sat also send me the below photo

Then he said ok nex one on the list is hotpot his cravings

Then I told him I won't since I had that last wk

The steak I had wif JJ last fri

My here suddenly got a night bazaar. So ulu place also have this lol!

 Then wed nite which is ytd went to dinner with the lady friend I made on the app as well.

Also 1 mth since our last dinner tgt

So nice of her to get me a big bag of snack frm her bkk n tw trip

So she also treated me dinner

So I went to treat her chicha

Then we spend 3hrs talking before we split ways

During dinner I am still gossiping Abt JZ 

He ask to meetup fr dinner bt end up 2wks ltr then giv me a date in the nex mth. So endup we meetup dinner 1 mth ltr.

Then after first meetup he told me let meetup agn. And till now it had been 3wks? Shld be 1 mth ltr then he will giv a date for the following mth liao

As he alot other life commitments

And endup jz as if can hear our gossip,

He rly texted me ytd nite , say sun wanna meetup fr dinner

Lol!

So since every sun I alr prep to go out wif JJ,

So I am free fr dinner time la.

So jus agree lo.

Bt wat I prefer Abt JZ to JJ is that he will have suggestions where to go what to eat

No need everything ask me decide n search n go.

And he is rly punctual to ea dates and he will always make reservations at restaurants

So he is rly more of a mature well rounded man?

So we shall contd to observe 

Updates for the past week

had a first meetup dinner last thurs

With a new guy that I chatted fr a few wks frm cmb

The highest qualification guy that I matched with

He had studied his masters in US under scholarship somemre

At first felt Abit intimidated to meet him

Bt surprisingly there is no top down kind of vibe frm him

And he seems to be a multi talent, cheerful and friendly guy

But felt there is no common topic bet us except working?

So didn't replied to his text anymore since last Thursday 

Hope he will get the hint as well

On a side note

Yayoi menu rly match my taste buds sia

Even their salads are damn nice

Then thought my weight would shot up

End up 

National day 9 Aug

Heavens gave me the best news

45.8kg!!

Lowest weight since my pri sch days

Holy shit!

Officially underweight liao.

The first n last time I was underweight was in primary 1

After that I am always borderline to overweight

And rly can't believe I will ever had a day that I will be underweight agn!

However, my goal is to be slow n stable n healthy while maintaining my weight

Hwaitinf!

My thighs n butt still looks meaty

I wonder those kpop idols with chopstick legs

Their weight cfm is 38 to 40kg range

Damn crazy!

Bt anyway, took me 1 yr to lost 8kg.

This is already one thing off my bucketlist of the mission impossible lol!!

Shall see can I maintain 45 till sep not.

My company medical health screening is on 10sep

I wan my medical report to be ideal

Teehee

 Last sun meal with JJ 

So he actually asked me out on national day

Which I rejected

And sun he also first time never asked me out.

Abit not used to sun not seeing him jus after a mth.

Last nite I rly almost text him

Wan meetup mah today.

But I managed to refrain myself frm doing so

As I know I am jus wasting his time

I want him to have time to go match with new girls on the dating apps

And make time to meetup with them as well

Who knows he might find someone who is willing to settle down with him real soon

And not like me , 

Know that I don't wanna settle down so fast

Yet I am unwilling to giv him up

As I am happy to have his companion as my daily texting buddy and dinner/lunch buddy

Sound rly selfish of me right?

So endup I manage to come to terms 

And did nt ask him out.

I decide to giv him the freedom 

Don't wanna tied him down

So is like if he ask me out, I will say yes

But if he doesn't, I won't ask him out either

Need to be prepared that he is gonna giv up on me and leave me anytime.

Cannot be too used to his companion 

And be dependent on him 

Penelope's Elliot Bb 1 month

Finally Penelope is fine to have visitors

After a 1 month long taking care of her baby

Bought Mac breakfast over

And catch up with the last time we seen ea other few mth back

A pity I can only can stay for 3hrs and had to leave cause of my date in the afternoon

Jasmine also had to go Pauline's housewarming in the afternoon

Had fun playing with her baby and Haruki

This feeling is totally different when I am visiting wmzyj's baby.

Felt totally comfortable with Penelope and her hubby and jasmine which I had nv seen fr sooo long

Finally know is the person itself and not the situation we are in that make me felt that way.

Her maternity leave will be till sep

So so gonna visit her again before August ends

Till then~ 

Photos below:

PS Haruki keep lick me all over and bite my hands n arms

Saliva is all over me

Ok I will jus take it as thats his way of showing love n affection to me 

In a smelly way lol!

 By the way

After leaving Penelope house

Manage to get a free ride from Uncle Kenny

As they need drive jasmine to Pauline which is my ex hr manager in pokka

Manage to see receptionist Chris and despatch driver Uncle Kenny after 2 yrs plus

And Penelope's replacement Jacqueline

Felt warm in my heart 

Glad that everyone is fine after so long

And they all said I had become skinner

Ya, ofc I had slim down 53kg to 46kg.

7kg ley. Cfm will have differences 

Ahahahah

Cathay Platimum Movie Suites

First time experience PMS

Cost only $27

I felt is not bad!

The thing I like most is the seats and not alot audience 

Totally private n prestige feel

And watch my favorite Jackie Chan movie 

A Legend!

Then after  movie ends 

Went to have dinner at Jackplace in Jem

Sirloin steak

Damn nicee despit the lousy service crew and long queuing times

 

Another farewell to my colleague Peiyi

went to a hotpot store

Li Ji Chuan Chuan jus opposite Maxwell station

For a farewell dinner with my hr temp girl

PeiYi

Who was with us since last Nov till this jul

8mths

Of memories and companion

She is like my lil sis

Wish her well in her uni studies and her future job

Miss you already

Without u

Nobody will pei me go AV eat mala xiangguo

And steamboat no one will eat with me mala soup base le TT

Then after steamboat we went to opp street

Some Chinese desert shop

He Jia Huan

Which my colleague said is famous de

But me and pei Yi is like nv heard before!

Lol

I ordered a red bean soup.

Then another update

So this Tues went on my forth date with this junjie guy

Met him at Westgate fr dinner after work

Glad that he is making effort to meet me on wkdays instead of always wkends

As I mention to him last sun that actually I prefer meet fren on wkdays after work kind de

And I like my bf to be more talkative n proactive.

Gt a funny episode that is when we walking to the restaurant we eating de at Westgate. The atrium there gt a sales guy walk up to us and asked 你们是情侣吗? I immediately raise hand to shake and shake my head. Then the stupid 没眼力见的salesman still continue say 那你们是即将变成情侣吗? I am like wtf? Then I walk off, leaving the guy n salesman behind, then I heard the salesman telling the guy 加油! Damn funny. Then the guy chase up to me then we contd walk to the restaurant

Then to make things lighter. I told the guy, this is not as awkward is last time me n my bro walking tgt in mall, some wedding planner salesman also ask are we couple nt. Lol! 

This time round the jap noodle we had was nicer above.

 The below pic was the cafe we went on sun at orchard