My favorite time of the year

 

My favorite time of the year had arrive once again.

Year end!

October is coming to an end.

With November coming, it is jus 2 mre mths before 2021 comes to an end..

And before the year ends..

It will welcome my fave season and holiday of the year..

Christmas!!

Really like the atmosphere the weather of December

For all my life I am living in an all year long summer country..

Really like cold weather..

I also like snowboarding, sled on snow..

Aigoo..

Seems like travel nex year without the need to serve any SHN for 2wks seems to be coming true finally!

Finally!

Hope I can go for sky diving and snowboarding again..

Eating ice cream in my Airbnb while watching the snow falling outside my window and the ground covered with thick white snow.

So prettyyyy..

How to stop a conversation

I believe everyone will have times when they just want to be alone and not talk.

Or you might just wanted to stop talking to someone 

Or want that someone to stop talking to you.

And what is really the most effective method to do so.

Let me teach you.

There is just only 1 way and having 1 attitude towards that person in that situation.

Just say a one word to everything he says. Ya..yes..ok..really..

And best if that 1 word is in agreement to whatever he says. So he cannot continue the conversation. Like asking u why not. Why u not feeling or thinking the same thing as him.

And let's say u agree with what he says.

The next thing he will possibly say to keep the comvo going will be why he think that way. And you can still answer him yes meaning u having same thinking as him.

So no need to continue the Convo.

So one word reply is the ultimate way to be a comvo stopper. 

The next is attitude.

Always speak your one word with mono tone and mildly.

So that the person will not be easily agitated even though he might be frustrated that he can't keep the comvo going.

However, he can't flare up easily if you reply him rly seriously and disinterestedly wif your 1 word reply.

So ultimately, he will probably give up and leave u alone.

This method seems the most effective way that I had come up with for 29years of try and trial.

With that I rly managed to avoid talking to my dad nor needing to waste my energy n time to quarrel with him..

Busy happy working life

These days I had been feeling this way.

Very busy working life

With neverending work task assigned to me

And never ending of staff coming to ask me things submit things for me to process

However, dk for what reason..

My mood still remains happy and motivated to complete all the task assigned to me

At first, I thought this is just something that will pass after few weeks..

However.. this had been ongoing since 3months ago

So I am Abit bizarre currently...

Mayb cos I know what to do for all the tasks assigned to me so I dun feel lost and frustrating

It is jus the amount of work n not the difficulty of the work

This is way I am feeling this way now.

Secondly mayb cos my colleague left

As the things he passed is always messy n missing n last min for new hire and always inform me really last min tml got new hire.

End up Everytime drop bombs to me.

If nt is claims I already processed my side but cos he delay approve then endup all staff complain why so long haven get money.

Really is make my work more transparent as now everything from head to toe is done by me.

And I will noe all the info ahead and plan my work well..

Though alot hell mre workload to handle but at least is not rly messy n last min inform me kind.

I can plan my work.

And thirdly when I am happy despite being so busy these period is cause our company is relocating to a location so much nearer to my home.

I can save half of my original transport time to workplace.

And having a new office though will be much smaller than here..

But these days as I am packing my current hr office..shredding old documents n papers..

My mood rly so gd sia..

Lol!!!

And today is newest news

I heard that the demolish and reconstruction of my current company building will only be completed in 2024.

That means I will be at the location for 3mre years..

Phew .whether the office gd or not.

Anyway we are 50% work frm home now.

Who cares.

I jus want to save my transportation time.

Cab fee also cheaper is I wanna cab home

I think all these rly contribute to my happy n motivated feeling these days

Despite my workload is almost tripled than my past 2years here in this company.

I foresee this will all the way last till dec after I moved over..

Lol.

Busy happy earning money!

Lovers of the red sky

 While everyone nowadays are in love with kdrama Squid Game.

And here is a person in love with another kdrama Lovers of the Red Sky

This type of genre is what I prefer.

Romance drama

But here is not rly a sweet drama or neither is it a comedy..

But had some elements of evil lurking whether humans or non human beings

Which will add on to bitterness and sad moments in this drama..

But had been enjoying it so far..

6 mre eps to go before final and 3 mre wks to wait..

I am currently at the 7th ep..

Total ep is 16..

So this WK I am on office duty.

So I suppose I will be pausing my watching to this weekend. So will air till ep 12..

And I will jus need to wait for 2 mre wks.

Enjoy this drama so far.

Pace is not slow nor fast jus nice.

I hope the 3rd prince won't die cos of his brothers war towards the throne

And lastly ofc hope those minor roles won't die as well..

Hate it when ppl die cos of bad people.

Museum of Ice Cream Singapore

 Meet up wif her...after few months I guess..

Was suppose to be leave taken for 

Fmh bachelorette stayca

Bt the new stricter rules make it impossible.

As social gathering back to 2

So we felt too disappointing to cancel leave

And went out wif ea other today..

Plan a great deal of things to do and places to visit for the day..

Didn't know that given our personalities

We rly folow the original plans and itinerary

And went to all in a day.

My most fave pic of the day

At St George Church

Aplace that seems to be out of Singapore

Though weather is freaking hot but the pic went out rly well

So everything is worth it!

Glad we went there after all it is quite near to the ice cream museum

Tot we will find ice cream museum to be bored and had predict we will come out after an hour at most

But ended up 3 hours inside

I also don't know why so much time is spent inside..

But I like the fact that we didn't spent a single cent inside yet enjoying max

Firstly tickets is free thanks to yh..

Ea ticket prices at $40

And the ice cream is complimentary

I had 10 ice creams..

Lol

My 1 yr worth of ice cream.amt

And and half a time is spent taking photos

Since we know this is the first and last time we are going to be here.

Their sprinkling pool I think is the most highlight part of this museum.

I had most fun though the queue time for this is quite long

But it is worth it!

Then after museum and at George Church..

We cab to golden mile complex for visit to a retro cinema and took a black n white photo over there before heading out to a hawker next to the cinema..

And came across a fish soup store..

That one was the most surprising event today

It has been so long since I ate one which is so delicious after my time in Tuas canteen

I would definitely go back to have it again!

Photo came out pretty but the price paid is almost died of the heat this afternoon lol!!

U can't believe the timing is 4plus when we are taking this photo..

Singapore is rly...hotttt

Went  to toa payoh safra to have a bowling session

Actually we went to bowling session for a total of 5 times..

But those impromptu and unplanned time make it a wasted trip as the bowling floor is always full..

So today was the second lucky time that the centre was quite empty..

Phew..

As we rly walked a long way there.

Had an hour session before walking back to toapayoh at 8pm to have dinner at jack place..

And cab home at almost 10pm..

Tired Maxx..

But it was a well spend day!

Next event I guess will be 20nov fmh big day that we will all meetup tgt!

Another most angry momenti brought 2 honey to giv yh..but endup carrying it all the way in my bag ..up n down whole day..

And back to home tonight wif me..

Totally frgt to past yh at the end of the day..

As her bag is vry small...

So frustrating!!!!

Besides this...everything is perfect!