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Wrong tagging of marriage and bto balloting
Why go bto balloting that means cfm you are both getting married?
Why once we reach 30s and dating, ppl will auto assume, u both definitely will get marry then come upfront ask u , so when you all getting marry?
I rly don't like the idea of this assumption
This might be cause by the difficulty of securing a bto in sg.
So alot guys will skip the step of proposing then getting engaged then plan wedding then get married officially then get own bto
Guys will say let's go ballot for hdb. Bto vry hard to get a queue number, we need to ballot earlier
Then everyone will think oh they are waiting hdb appointment,oh they ballot for bto alr
So they are getting marry le and then openly ask u all when getting marry.
I rly feel like all this procedure is wrong to start with le.
Don't even have a proper proposal to ask me then suddenly felt like I already agree to marry him.
Felt Abit confused and overwhelmed here now me.
I mean we are jus getting bto first since take so many yrs to secure a flat. But doesn't 100% guarantee we will be getting married in the end isn't it? Why can't ppl think this way ? Make me damn awkward everytime I hear ppl ask upfront, when u guys getting marry har? I feel like replying, he haven even propose and I haven even satisfied with his proposal and agree to marry him. Wtf u mean as when are u guys marrying?

































