Does Status really Matters?

All along thought that status only affects people who is in love relationship

You can't have too much of a gap bet lovers

No doubt in terms of abilities, wealth, personality, thinking.

But recently I felt like this towards a friend.

A close one.

We both started on the same startline in secondary school

But somehow she begin run more and more fast then me and now the gap bet us is galaxy far

Didn't rly notice the gap had become so far till recently.

For me I am working ofc

I had my other acquaintances and colleagues to keep in touch with 

Own matters to settle

But basically this friend is unreasonably busy when she is not even a CEO or manager level.

She can reply my messages 3days later or sometime weeks or sometime totally nothing

At first will ofc be frustrated

Esp fr a close friend who always msg me update me lil silly daily she had in life.

But suddenly this beginning of the year it becum this jialat.

Then I will be telling her, work life balance,

If your this job can make you this busy and no rest time to even reply friend a msg

Isn't this a serious prob?

But she still contds this.

So I had nth to say as this is her decision

But ytd was rly the trigger.

I send her 1 long chunk of messages 

She nv reply jiu suan le

Few hrs ltr she send me work stuff pic and tell me to ignore.

Then I am like u see all my long long message above and nv read nv reply jiu suan le. Cos understand work stuff might flood your watsapp as I sometime face this issue as well.

So I waited for a day. Totally no reply to my previous long long msg

So I am like I am so so gonna ignore u once and for all.

Then she after that told me his situation

Really work had taken a toll on her 

I also can't bear to tell her off anymore.

After all who am I to do so right? To someone who is working hard.

And when I am only a friend. Not her family not her bf

That's when I started to think if I am as bz as her will things be fairer and fine?

Like I wun feel this frustrations as I am also work till like no day no night kind.

Then will start to think of my abilities and hers

She is way up there then me that's y this is our difference

And I will start to feel the gap bet us is so big that I think we are no longer as close as we used to be 

And we can't return back to the once carefree youngsters anymore

Esp when she also having a bf lately.

Priority ofc is fam then work then bf.

Mayb it is time for me to step aside and start off my own life 

Does anyone out there have similar experience and frustrations?

Meeting with FMH

 Finally had settle down with my career path decision for this year.

Now nearing last quarter of the year

Is to take a break and catch up wif my friends

Last week with Jelly

This week with fmh

Long time since I seen this girl

Cause she free I not free

I free she not free

So drag drag drag till now sep then finally met up

Seriously, I think this is the second time I met her face to face for this yr

And she also seldom contact me through watsapp.

All the time I am the one who initiated the talk

This pregnant lady too bz

Lol!!

Glad that she is doing fine so far

And Renna is going to be out in mid nov!

Please be healthy till then both mum and child!

Mayb nex mth I will try go see tmy baby

Yh seems rly bz wif her work life

Feel sad for her.

As there is no work life balance at all

And her leftover minimal personal time off work still needs to split for herself recharge and her fam and her bf

So friends..lasttt!

Ahahah she can take few days or weeks to reply my messages..

At first still will angry

But now already used to it le.

This weekend nid attend cousin wedding 

And next mth need attend my poly friend wedding.

Looking fwd to my Christmas!!

Love yr end! 

Meetup with my Jelly

 

Tgif meetup with Kelly

Never know in my life I can jus meet her alone among my sec sch clique

As among wmzyj, she is the second one that I am awkward when alone with.

However recently the one that I always met alone are too busy with their life.

Meetup with my jel in April and now sep we met again.

Funny that I am suddenly meeting her so frequently.

And with no awkwardness

Met straight after work and ate Blanco court beef noodle shop

Their mushroom chicken rice is so niceee

Started eating at 7pm and ending up 9.30pm then left the store.

Didn't know we talk so hella long there.

This is probably one of my few longest period I spent eating a meal that isn't even a buffet.

Lol!

Wat caused this change? 

Cos we both are facing a same situation these days in life.

In April, we met up dinner also on a Friday nite

And complaining about our life, work 

And suddenly in sep we both REALLY throw letters and say gsbye to our workplace

And even actually started working at our new workplace almost the same timing.

Lol!!

I am almost into my 2nd mth and she is 1st month there alr.

So definitely the feeling and everything we facing are the same.

Aigoo..

So talk alot Abt wat we are facing at our new company so far

Ofc not all are bad.

Glad that we are both taking the pay that we are happy with and hope we can last long there !

After dinner actually we intend to look for a dessert place for further talking

But cos it was late and most eateries are closed.

So we walk ard some shops before saying our gdbyess

Till next time!

Nex I am going to find some time to meet my other long lost friends that I haven seen or talk in this year.

This first half of the year, I am rly busy into my next chap of life and busy mapping out my career path.

Now is alr not only sec half of the year bt is actually the last quarter of the year already.

I am gg to slow dwn my engine Abit and look mre into my personal social life.

Aigoo~

Oya one mre TMI to add on before I leave.

Nex Monday is when my new HR Shared Svc manager is going to onboard

Either it will be for the worst or better.

Excited.

Hwaiting!