Gathering after a long time with WMZYJ

 Yrly meetup with WMZYJ plus spouse n kids

Crazy hectic noisy night 

And I think I did well in enduring the awkwardness and out of place that I felt

Bt I manage it well with my social masking n social courtesy skills frm my job as an HR executive 

Thanks to kel for being the only one who thought of and asking me how am I doing with my job and my life , like when getting marry.

Cos have to expect now most Convo is more family and kid oriented. Instead of self oriented topics like what we used to have.

Thanks to mh, for trying to make her kid Reina to warm up to me and play with them both and eloera after dinner

Honestly speaking, I don't have fun spending time with kids neither do I have the patience in trying to understand what they are saying or trying to express

So most of the time I am jus smiling and giving reactions beside mh playing n interacting with them

While the other husbands and tmy n kel talking over the dinner table.

Bt at least I didn't experience nausea or any symptoms frm the gathering last nite.

Like when I am hosting engagement events for my company 

I had try to googled why I am feeling nauseous from social gatherings esp with a big group of people that I am not close with and I had to force to socialize in that environment.

Google result show the below:

Bt no choice at times, we as an adults even if is introvert, we also cannot escape and have to sort of deal with it like my job as an HR

I will be force to engage all kinds of employees under such engagement events often.

Then at the end of the gathering as we were gg hm

Kelly even ask me so how ? Do your still feel awkward? Then I jus say no , bt hen energy draining cause of all the kids

I guess I have to tell a white lie Abt this so as not to hurt other's feelings

And damn funny I even receive an angpow frm kel

Cause she said I am not yet marry so can receive

Luckily I got buy her a aromatic diffuser frm Takashimaya earlier as her hsewarming gift

If not rly paiseh

Bt oh well, good job cal !

U are not self entitled or anti social !

U did well!

Shall rest well for the nex day preparations 

Packing my big big luggage frm my 2wks Japan trip in march

Snowboard trip aka bf family trip

Another social gathering time for me

Jiayou introvert cal!

GANKO Omakase Treat

This yr first time my VB have 2.5mths at my current company

So decided to treat my bf his face omakase

Cause he always treating me what I like to eat

But since I don't eat raw food

He didn't have a chance to eat that much

So decided to bring him to one 

Somemore got 1 for 1 promo

2pax for $198

I feel ok la

Located right next to Dhoby Ghuat station

Cross the road and 2min walk

Ambience and staff service was great!

Food overall 6.5/10 based on my bf rating

Whereby he is a sashimi lover

Gave him his bdae gift in advance for him to use in Japan

his current prada wallet alr use for 10yrs liao, like crumpled paper

LOL

 

Happy Reunion Dinner

First yr eat reunion dinner at my bf hse

Abit weird har

Esp when even my family no such practice ever since my parent's fallout

10yrs plus liao

Thankyou them for accommodating me!

Esp my dad is off on 除夕，初一初二

Thankuu my bf for letting me gg his house to escape from my hse my dad

Phew!

Cutie pie frm Sunday Jumbo dinner

First yr we brought him to pray nainai at Changi beach

And first yr he is gonna go through his cny

And also first yr

My bf gg my relative hse fr CNY

Crazyyyy!!

Time fliess

What shld I wear tml?

Hmmppppphhhhh 

 

Happy Valentine's 2026

This year Valentine's rly pay back to my last yr failed Valentine's 

Thanku my b

For remembering my disappointment frm last yr and

Determined to make up to me this year

$245 roses bouquet delivered to my office during lunch time

Biggest ever bouquet I received

So heavy 1kg I think it weighs

And all my colleague heart shaped eyes at me and the flowers

Hiding it under my table and contd working for the day till at night he came to fetch me after work for dinner

Which he kept it a secret the dinner place 

So ended up at somewhere named New Bahru neighborhood 

And a winery restaurant that goes by the name of Le Clos

This neighborhood is rly a gem

It is like a prestige hidden away neighborhood near the outskirts of the CBD area

Totally never heard of or been here before

The vibes everything is like being in an American town in SG

And the crowd is not much despite it being Friday night

But I rly like the atmosphere n vibes this small neighborhood gives off

Where by all the rich stays

Manage to see a chaffuer in a $3,000,000 car according to my bf

SG rly too much rich ppl

Crazyyy!

We ordered a pizza, lamb skewers as appetisers 

And our main is steak and iberico pork

Damn nice 

And rly is fine dining

The waiting ,serving time is soooo slow

We ate for 2hrs for this meal

Before we left for plaza sing to buy a vase for my roses 

Him srsly counting the number of roses

Being tasked to him by his gf 

Ahahahah

Answer is 38roses!

And I rly bring up my courage to carry the roses everywhere I went

To show off my $245  rose

Ahahaha

And sure. Enough I damn awakward and shy of the attention I received at the same time

Keep asking my bf to stay near me

Don't make me stand alone and malu with the big bouquet

Then my bf say I siao de又要拿出去然后拿了又怕paiseh

Lol!

I reply aiya so ex, shld take out to show off Yi xia mah

First time experience 

So far whenever he gift me flowers ,the flowers always remain in the car till I go hm de

I wanna try carrying the flowers are and walking on the streets wif my bf mah.

Ahahaha

Then sure enough , all the couples / ladies I met, my bouquet is the largest! And the prettiest! For that night

I damn proud and happy

And keep commenting to my bf,u see that bouquet the lady holding nt?! Mine bigger ley

Then I beamed

Then my bf laughing at me

Throughout the night

Then I say last yr I no flower

See ppl have flower only

This yr is me having the biggest flower MUAHAHAHAHAH

Unwrapped to their new home

In a newly bought vase frm daiso ytd

Happy me!

 

Funny episode at work

So background story to kick start

Me and my colleagues all dislike our manager.

So the story goes by

Last Saturday we had our company DnD then there is a so-called after party lo

Which me and others nv go, cause we tired.

Then only 2 hr colleagues went

This yr they were joined by a few dept ppl, and also PM and HODs

Unlike last yr, we only went with 1 other dept nia and without PMs and HODs

Then cause last min mah, zouk was full and got 100ppl queueing ahead of them to go in

So 1 of the HODs uncle suggest gg The Palace those with hostress de la

Then that's when things go wrong when someone within that grp go hug n kiss some lady who is serving us drinks

Which then dk who go tell the my director then suddenly became a huge wooha thing and my manager be assigned to do investigation 

I didn't go wat, so I am quietly doing my own thing then when almost end work time, my colleague suddenly email me 2 LOAs to do. I alr Abit pekchek, thinking why can't she giv me earlier sia. Wait till left 15min to knock off time then send me. She purposely de har.

Then I rushing fr the LOA le mah, that stupid manager still come n say, u go call this staff to arrange meeting. I rly exploded, jidangao, jus a phone call , u cannot call meh. Still need mafan me

Then I show black face and said why is me call agn? U cannot call meh? Then she said why u dw call? Then before I can reply, Maggie roll over and ask my manager, har 你叫她(我) 打，你自己打啦? Then my manager 不爽,she said then u all go do the investigation lo. Then maggie replied, 你的薪水给我啦then. Then Meichee who is seated Infront of me and heard the whole convo , she said wow wow,cool down. Then I said what time u wan ,what the person name, I call la. Then my manager replied n walked away. Then mei chee looking at me, I tell her真的吗一通电话也要叫我打，很难么? I rly don't care whether meichee and my manager is bff or wat. She can go and tell her what i said Idc.

Then after that I went to call the staff and say here is hr, my hod n manager wan see u tml u free not? Then he said he on leave not free. The day after tml morning can not. Then I say u wait har I go ask my manager. Then after then I call the staff back say, I the HR jus now har, u wed 10.30am come HQ la. Bye!

Even without waiting the person say or ask anything I hang up.

Rly hate to be pigeon parrot sia. Not say I hen free also. Even if I free, is also cause I plan and finish my work ahead of time. None of your business right. Why shld I hlp u do your work. When u everyday walk up n dwn, got time chit chat here n there.

Rly damn useless she.

Still dare tell me, why u stress? I also nv complain I stress yet. I almost say, then when u take your salary why nv see u stress. U holding manager salary ofc shld work manager workload mah. Why compare with us executives lvl. Then u don't wan work manager workload, then u resign la. Complain complain

Rly had to rant here, if nt har will explode.

Don't wanna spread this negativity to my close friends, bf or family also.

Thanks to my blog for being my rubbish bin once again lol!

Caricature of Us

When I ask Chatgpt to create caricature of us and our jobs based on everything they know Abt us

And uploaded our selfies

The image created of us is so damn cute!