Does Status really Matters?

All along thought that status only affects people who is in love relationship

You can't have too much of a gap bet lovers

No doubt in terms of abilities, wealth, personality, thinking.

But recently I felt like this towards a friend.

A close one.

We both started on the same startline in secondary school

But somehow she begin run more and more fast then me and now the gap bet us is galaxy far

Didn't rly notice the gap had become so far till recently.

For me I am working ofc

I had my other acquaintances and colleagues to keep in touch with 

Own matters to settle

But basically this friend is unreasonably busy when she is not even a CEO or manager level.

She can reply my messages 3days later or sometime weeks or sometime totally nothing

At first will ofc be frustrated

Esp fr a close friend who always msg me update me lil silly daily she had in life.

But suddenly this beginning of the year it becum this jialat.

Then I will be telling her, work life balance,

If your this job can make you this busy and no rest time to even reply friend a msg

Isn't this a serious prob?

But she still contds this.

So I had nth to say as this is her decision

But ytd was rly the trigger.

I send her 1 long chunk of messages 

She nv reply jiu suan le

Few hrs ltr she send me work stuff pic and tell me to ignore.

Then I am like u see all my long long message above and nv read nv reply jiu suan le. Cos understand work stuff might flood your watsapp as I sometime face this issue as well.

So I waited for a day. Totally no reply to my previous long long msg

So I am like I am so so gonna ignore u once and for all.

Then she after that told me his situation

Really work had taken a toll on her 

I also can't bear to tell her off anymore.

After all who am I to do so right? To someone who is working hard.

And when I am only a friend. Not her family not her bf

That's when I started to think if I am as bz as her will things be fairer and fine?

Like I wun feel this frustrations as I am also work till like no day no night kind.

Then will start to think of my abilities and hers

She is way up there then me that's y this is our difference

And I will start to feel the gap bet us is so big that I think we are no longer as close as we used to be 

And we can't return back to the once carefree youngsters anymore

Esp when she also having a bf lately.

Priority ofc is fam then work then bf.

Mayb it is time for me to step aside and start off my own life 

Does anyone out there have similar experience and frustrations?